A Middle-Aged Woman Rages
Melissa Jørgenrud Helton's debut collection, A Middle-Aged Woman Rages, captures a life on the brink of fifty. These poems confront parenting grown children, divorce, and a country in the midst of political upheaval, all while navigating perimenopause and fighting to sustain creativity and healing. Searing and unapologetic, Helton refuses silence. Her poems name what women are taught to swallow and model truth-telling as survival—inviting and emboldening women to speak with power and without permission.
"Through these poems, I come to understand the middle-aged woman raging as a community spiritual worker. Like the poet herself, these poems reflect us back to ourselves, they give us ideas about how to get up and get out from under whatever is holding our humanity hostage."—Joy Priest
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Melissa Jørgenrud Helton is too young to be called a crone, too social to be called a hag, too grounded to be "the Great Black Swamp woman," but this is the magic female energy one feels in reading A Middle-Aged Woman Rages. In this spellbinding collection, Helton chronicles and negotiates the world as a woman in middle age. People chide her: "Listen up girlie, … / We like you quieter, much softer." But the poet declares "I am writing this and sharing it out loud." With fierce energy and a creative use of poetic styles, these poems collaborate as an affirmation against the evils women face and as an entreaty to "thrive in flux," to pay "deliberate, unceasing attention" to everything in the world, "as if it were holy.
Through these poems, I come to understand the middle-aged woman raging as a community spiritual worker. Like the poet herself, these poems reflect us back to ourselves, they give us ideas about how to get up and get out from under whatever is holding our humanity hostage. Through book spine poems and dialogue poems reminiscent of Louise Glück, "the wise hand opens the appendices" and finds the poetry all around us, "tries to find the sounds of yellow in October." These hands mother and rescue and play bingo. These poems are fearless and yet they understand the importance of acknowledging our fears and telling what we must tell to survive.
The poems in Melissa Helton's A Middle-Aged Woman Rages create sisterhood and community. They heal and affirm. Their fearlessness, humor, and lyrical beauty give the reader heart to hear, as the poet does, "how hope echoing back to you squalls in the ear." These poems continue the deeply feminist work of poets like Adrienne Rich, who could have been describing this collection when she wrote, "Poetry can break isolation, show us to ourselves when we are outlawed or made invisible, remind us of beauty where no beauty seems possible, remind us of kinship where all is represented as separation." Helton's work reminds readers they are enough, that "we hold each other's hand, which is our own.
Helton's poetic politics are not for women only. In poems like "Makin' It Great!" & "Disunion Refutation" she speaks for all who are marginalized & abused: immigrants, LBGTQ folks, single mothers, the poor, & Earth herself. Two things keep this from being overwhelming: the poet's lyrical love of the natural world & the wealth of forms she writes in: villanelle, duplex, documentary, book spine, haibun, list & more. Her passion & artistry left me awed, energized, & ready to write. What more could you want?